I get you. For years I didn’t post or even take full body pics. I felt like my face was way better than the rest of me and if I showed the world what I looked like no one would want to pay attention to me.
I see people who have so many pictures from high school and how they lovingly look back on them. I, however, have very few pictures from that period of my life.
Don’t get me wrong, I have a few, but I spent that time avoiding the camera from the chest down.
Why do we do it?
We are trained to think that unless you look a certain way, you aren’t attractive. We see pictures like this splashed all over the internet and magazines and we think this is the norm.
There’s a million reasons we don’t like our body and I couldn’t even begin to name them all. We also forget that it’s not just curvy girls that feel self conscious.
All women feel that way; big or small, tall or short.
But that’s the thing – if we all feel that way at some point, then why can’t we just be accepting of each other?
Your body does not define you. Your skin color does not define you. Your clothes do not define you. Your hair does not define you.
You define who you are.
Take control of who you are and go on a journey of learning to love yourself. Take those pictures. Post those pictures. Life does not wait for you to decide you’re good enough, so live each day. Enjoy your friends and family. Wear that bathing suit to the beach. Wear the leggings.
Don’t hide everything but your face. Be proud and unapologetically so.