Natural Eye Makeup Tutorial – No Filter or Ring Light!

Hello all! 

Today I’m gonna try out my first makeup tutorial!

We’ll be using the Tom Ford Eye Quad in Nude Dip and no falsies, only mascara!

What you’ll need:

Eyeshadow Quad – I’m using a Tom Ford quad, but you can use these steps for any quad that you have on hand. 

Eyeshadow Primer – I recommend Urban Decay’s Eyeshadow Primer Potion, but any one that you love will do. 

A Matte Cream Eyeshadow – I love Tarte’s Confetti Cake, but any skin colored matte shadow will do. 

Eyeliner – I’m using Marc Jacobs’ Highliner Gel Crayon, but any black eyeliner pencil will do. 

Eyelash Curler

Mascara – I’m trying out Urban Decay’s Perversion mascara, but you know the drill – any will do. 

Four Eyeshadow Brushes – a big fluffy brush, a blending brush, any basic shadow brush, and a tapered brush. 

The steps:

1) Line your water line in black. Your waterline is the space on the inside of your eyelashes. 

2) Prime your lids

3) Dust a matte eyeshadow over your whole lid with a fluffy brush. This helps with the blending of the rest of the shadows. 

Your eye should now look like this. 

4) Take your lightest shade in the quad and with a fluffy brush dust it all over your lid, paying special attention to the area below your brow bone. 


5) Take the next lightest shade and put in on the bottom half of your lid – from your crease ( literally where your eye creases. If you don’t have a crease then decide where you would want it to be and make that your “crease” ) to your eyelashes. 


5) Take your second darkest color, and with a blending brush, work the color into your crease. I go from the crease to just above it. Go slow at first, as you can always go back for more shadow! It’s easier to add more than to have to try to blend out too much. 

6) Now take your tapered brush and dip into your darkest color. You’re going to want to put that color on your outer v – literally make a V on the outside of your eye. Start a third of the way up your crease and bring it to a point, and then take it to the outside third of your lashes. You’ll see that you make a V with that shade. Remember, don’t grab too much shadow at first. Build up the coverage until you get the darkness you desire. 

6) Take your blending brush and blend around your edges. Make sure that there are no harsh lines; your shadow should blend into one another. I usually just try to blend my crease color into my outer v color. 

7) Take your finger (either your middle or ring finger ) and get some of the second lightest shade. Tap that color onto the middle of your lid. This will draw the attention to the middle of your eye. 

8) Now just curl your lashes and apply mascara! 

And that’s it! You have your completed look! If you love falsies then feel free to apply them. I normally do when I go out, but I wanted this to be a natural look. 

Hope you enjoyed, and that this was easy to follow! 

Remember, makeup is fun and should be treated as such. If you don’t like how it looks the first time, then just wipe it off and start again. Practice makes perfect!

Is the Dior Addict Lip Maximizer worth the price?

There’s drug store makeup.

There’s high end makeup.

Then there’s luxury makeup.

Today I want to discuss the Dior Addict Lip Maximizer and wether or not I believe it’s worth the $33.00 price tag. 

Firstly, let’s talk about how much product you get. 

There is .20fl oz in the Dior Maximizer, which is actually .02fl oz more than other glosses, like Nars. 

Secondly, length of time it last on the lips.  

I usually put it on before I leave for work and I don’t need to reapply any lip product for at least 2-3 hours, and that’s through eating a pack of crackers and drinking water. 

In my opinion, it last longer for me than other glosses.

Next, color. 

Right now it comes in two different colors: Pink 001 and Beige Sunrise 006. I’ve only tried the pink color and it’s pretty see through so don’t expect an opaque gloss. Of course, for me I wear it with only a brow tented gel so I love that fact that it’s not pigmented. You can wear it over a lip liner if you wanted a colored look. 

Lastly, price. 

This product retails for $33.00, which is about $15.00 higher than glosses like Bare Minerals. Of course, this also contains collagen, so it’s not just the name you’re paying for. 

Item overview

Personally, I love this product. It tingles (which I love), lasts quite a while, and isn’t overly sticky. 

The instructions that comes with the product says to use every day for two weeks to see a difference in your lips. I did just that and I can honestly say I notice a difference in my lips. 

Now, don’t expect Kylie Jenner lips, because without fillers being injected it’s an impossible goal. 

However, there’s less lines in my lips and the corners are more full. I put on a very vampy lipstick earlier and I could tell a big difference in how my lips looked with lipstick. There’s not a major difference, but I can tell that I’ve been using a lip plumper. 

Top pic is before and bottom is two weeks later. 

Plus, when you apply it your lips they actually do plump up instantly. 

My thoughts

I truly love this product. I use it every morning and I honestly do feel that it’s improved my lips. The fact that it’s Dior makes my morning a little more fun. 

If you love the brand, love lip plumping glosses, or just love luxe makeup I would suggest picking this product up and giving it a go. 

If you hate anything that tingles or have no need to plump your lips then I would say pass on this product. It does come with a steep price tag so make sure it’s something you’re really wanting. 

Like I said, don’t expect a miracle. It’s not going to give you a dramatic change, so of that’s what you’re expecting you’ll be disappointed. 

Okay, that’s it! Overall I give this product a solid 5 stars and would suggest to anyone who’s been wanting to try it to go for it!

16 Ride Or Die Beauty Must Haves (Pastey White Girl Addition)

Ride or Die. 

The best of the best. 

The must have,always, makeup items. 

I knew as soon as I watched Jaclyn Hill’s tag video the other day that I had to do my own version!

I mean, who doesn’t want to talk about their absolute favorite makeup items? 
So since this will be such a long post, I’ll get straight to it! 

1) Face Primer – Make Up For Ever Step 1 Skin Equalizer Primer in Smoothing. 

If you have large pores 🙋🏻 then this will fill them in and it wears great under foundation. 

2) Foundation – Make Up For Ever Ultra HD Stick

Oh, my holy grail foundation. Medium to full coverage, so many color options, and it doesn’t melt off my face in extreme heat and humidity (believe me, it’s been put to the test!). 

3) Concealer – it Cosmetics Bye Bye Under Eye 

Full coverage, light enough to highlight my under eye, and it doesn’t crease like crazy!

4) Face Powder – sadly, I haven’t found a ride or die face powder. 
Im still looking though!

5) Under Eye Setting Powder – Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder in Ethereal Light

Oh, the only powder I’ve found that doesn’t cake up under my eye, is light enough to not darken the concealer, and with enough pigment to further brighten my under eye. Be still my beating heart. 

6) Bronzer – Too Faced Milk Chocolate Soleil

Okay, this was slightly hard because I have great love for both the Too Faced Milk Chocolate Bronzer and the Benefit Hoola Bronzer, but truth be told I reach for the Too Faced more often. The Hoola bronzer is great, but I usually only want to use it in the summer because I’m way too pale for it in the winter. 

7) Blush – MAC Style Frost

I was torn between MAC Style and Nars’ Orgasm, but I reach for Style more often and it looks so natural when I have my no makeup, makeup days. 

8) Highlight – Becca Shimmering Skin Perfector Pressed in Pearl

Oh goodness, this wasn’t even something I had to think about. Pearl is amazing and if you’re a pale girl then it’s a must have in your makeup arsenal. 

9) Eyelashes – Huda Beauty Classic False Lashes in Giselle

These lashes guys.

 Oh my goodness. 

Perfect balance of fake and natural and they’re so comfortable to wear! I wore them for my sister’s bachelorette party and her wedding. 

I’ll insert a picture just so you can see how beautiful they are on. 

10) Mascara – Guerlain Maxilash

Okay, so let’s just acknowledge the elephant in the room – I have very small, stick straight lashes. Most mascara does absolutely nothing for me and if it does in the beginning the effects don’t last long. 
That was, until this gem came into my life. Even my mom commented on it saying that it actually looked like I had mascara on. Win. 
Plus, it doesn’t flake!

11) Eyeshadow Palette – Tom Ford Eye Quad in Nude Dip 

Okay, so this isn’t exactly a palette, but close enough!
I’ll be honest, I’m not too big on palettes and I find that I use 2-3 palettes just to get one look. 
But this. Oh. My. Goodness. 
Greatness. 
It’s natural enough to use to light makeup days, but you can build it up to be quite dramatic in a natural way. I’ll insert a pic. 

12) Lipstick – MAC Shy Shine

This is my go to natural pinky lipstick. 

13) Liquid Lipstick – The Balm Cosmetics Meet Matt(e) Huges in Committed

I’ll be honest, I’m not a huge liquid lip fan, but this is hands down my favorite. It wears really well and it’s what I put on my sister for both her engagement pictures and her wedding. 

14) Lipgloss – Dior Addict Lip Maximizer High Volume Lip Plumper

Okay, it’s not just a lipgloss, but I reach for it everyday and it actually gives my lips a fuller look!

15) Setting Spray – MAC Fix+ and Urban Decay All Nighter

What can I say, I’m high maintenance. I use both of these together to get the look and longevity I want. Plus, Fix+ has so many uses!

16) Perfume – Philosophy Compassionate 

Oh goodness guys, this is a must have for me! It has such a warm vanilla scent and every time I wear it I get compliments. People tell me I smell like a cookie which is a win for me! 
And there we have it, my ride or die makeup products! 
I tag everyone who reads this to make their own list!   
Hope you enjoyed!
 

My Top Must Have Pasty White Girl Makeup Products 

We all know that a lot of women like to be tan. Naturally, by baking in the sun or in a tanning bed, or by fake tan. Don’t get me wrong, they look great, and most makeup products are targeted towards people in colors porcelain and above. 

But what about the other women who are naturally very pale and have no desire to change their natural skin tone? Those that Too Faced’s Born This Way foundation in Snow is still too dark?

It tends to be an issue with people who are in the extreme ends of the spectrum – extremely pale and extremely dark. Makeup companies seem to forget about us, but thankfully I have found some great products that work with pasty white skin!

Let’s get to it!

1) Make Up For Ever Ultra HD stick       in R230.

-This is an incredible pink undertoned foundation, so if you’re cool toned then check out the next color up!

 

2) Becca Shimmering Skin Perfector Pressed  in Pearl

3) IT Cosmetics Bye Bye Under Eye Anti-Aging Concealer in Light 

4) Tarte Amazonian Clay Matte Waterproof Bronzer

-This is great for contouring! It has a slight ashy tint to it that creates a natural looking shadow. 

5) Too Faced Soleil Matte Bronzer in Milk Chocolate 

6) Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder in Ethereal Light

-This is the best under eye                  setting powder! It actually brightens! It’s a mostly translucent powder that leave a slight shimmer to the skin. 

All of these products have been tested in weddings and in the heat.  The foundation wears so well even in 90 degree heat in a venue that has very little air conditioning and it doesn’t cling to dry patches like other foundations do. It has a slightly dewy finish so it’s perfect for dry skin. 

The Tarte bronzer is the only one I have found that looks good as a contour color and the Too Faced bronzer is a great way to subtly warm up your skin. 


The concealer is super light and is thick without being cakey. Just make sure you set it!

The Becca highlighter is white – like white white so you get that lovely wet look that is so in right now. 

And finally, the Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder is the only powder that actually keeps with the lightness of the concealer. It’s also great to lightly set your foundation. 

So there you have it! My favorite makeup products for fair skin! 

Anyone else have a product that they love for their skin tone?

I Have Tattoos (That I Regret)

Roughly 14% (around 45 million) people in the USA have tattoos. And yes, that totally came from Google. 

And yes, I have a hard time believing that only 14% of the American population have tattoos. 

But I am one of those Americans. 

I have seven tattoos in total and I got them between the ages of 18 and 24. They occupy my back, both of my feet, and my right wrist. Thankfully, they were all professionally done in a tattoo shop. I’ll be honest, sometimes I even forget I have them on my back until I catch my reflection in the mirror. 

I regret six of them and have a love/hate relationship with the seventh. 

Now, I don’t hate them to the point of wanting to get them removed, but they remind me of a different time in my life. I look at the deathbat on my left foot and remember the place that I was in when I was obsessed with Avenged Sevenfold. I see the clover on my spine with 3 initials in it and remember the friends I had in middle school through my early twenties. 

That also reminds me that we no longer speak.

I see the word Hope on my right foot and remember the friends I had that would later dump me because I began dating a guy they didn’t like. 

I could go on and on. 

Tattoos are prement reminders. Sometimes of good things and sometimes of bad things. 

We are also ever changing creatures and something that we liked at age 22 might not be what we like at age 27. 

Now, I’m not saying tattoos are bad or that they’re a bad idea to get. What I’m saying is even if it’s something you absolutely love right now, you may end up later hating it. You might regret having to wear a thick bracelet to work everyday because you have a tattoo on your wrist. 

We always tend to hear the extreme views on tattoos; people advocating for them or fully against them. 

But we don’t tend to hear the middle ground. We don’t hear from those who love tattoos, but hate their own. Or from those who just no longer want them on their own body and think they look great on others. 

Or those that love tattoos but just can’t bring themselves to get one. 

Tattoos can be works of art. They can be absolutely beautiful. They can hold special meaning. 

I just personally regret mine. 

And I’m just so glad I never got the half sleeve I wanted. 

Anyone else out there regret theirs? Or anyone else absolutely love theirs?

Let me know!

You Wear Too Much Makeup. 

“You wear too much makeup.”

“You have too much makeup.”

“You spent that much on makeup!”

“But why have all that makeup when you don’t wear it?”

I, for one, have been asked all of these questions, by men and women. (And probably more that I just can’t remember.) 

Now, I’ll admit, I own a lot of high end makeup. It’s what I like and I’m not and won’t be sorry for that. To some people, it’s ridiculous. To others, it’s awesome.  

But guess what? I don’t buy and wear makeup for other people. I buy and wear it for myself. 

I see my face as a blank canvas – one that I can highlight and contour, blend, and color how I want. 

Some people wear makeup to hide pimples and hyper pigmentation. Some wear it to make their face look smaller. Some wear it to boost their confidence. 

Whatever the reason someone wears it, man or woman, others need to stop and think before they comment. 

Why is it assumed that automatically if a woman wears makeup they’re wanting to impress a man? 

You think a man is gonna care that my eyeshadow is Tom Ford? Uh, no.  

Why can’t I just like makeup and want to wear it? Why is it so hard to believe that I do something for myself, and not someone else? 

Then you have the other end of the spectrum – not wearing makeup. 

Why is it assumed that when a woman doesn’t wear makeup that she doesn’t care enough? I have heard that so many times. Or, that she’s more independent than women who do wear makeup? 

If you wear makeup, great! If you don’t wear makeup, great! 

Instead of tearing each other down for our choices, why can’t we build each other up? As women, we have enough against us without other women tearing us down. Wearing makeup doesn’t make you any less of a feminist, just as not wearing makeup doesn’t makeup you a better feminist. 

What makes you less of a feminist is tearing down another woman for the choices she, herself, makes. That includes how much makeup she wears and how she dresses. 

Just like women tearing down Kim K because of her nude Instagram posts. Now, I personally may not support the idea of showing my body off to everyone, but why would I tear someone down for her personal choices? She, as an independent woman, made that choice.  Just like tearing down a women in dresses  and long skirts or a hijab and assumingthat they’re oppressed by a man? Why can’t those choices of modesty be their own? 

I personally dress pretty modest. I don’t expose cleavage or wear things that show off my butt or thighs. But guess what? That is my personal choice and that’s between God and I. 

No man is telling me to dress that way, but I’m sure my dad fully supports it. Then again, what dad wouldn’t? Baha-freaking-ha. 

Sorry, I had to take a laughter break. Wiping the tears from my eyes now. 

We, as women, need to empower each other. 

If we don’t, then who will? 

OCD and Me

Let’s face it, the term OCD has become mainstream. You like you money a certain way? OCD! You like to brush your hair 100 times? OCD! Now, I’m not saying that those aren’t OCD tendencies and of course I’m not a psychologist (though I use to want to be one. All those classes gone to waste. Le sigh) so I couldn’t tell you what the difference between being quirky and actual Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is. 

However, I can tell you about my struggles with OCD. 

I do some funny things, like I lock the door a certain way while thinking of a tune I made up. I chant things while making sure I armed the door at work. 

I know it looks funny. I laugh at myself sometimes. 

But there’s a whole other side that isn’t quite as funny. 

Sometimes I have to drive back to work to double check that I armed the door – even after my little ritual. I’ve gotten up in the middle of the night to check the door again because I get a mental picture of someone breaking in and murdering my whole family. 

Yeah, it’s not all funny. 

Thankfully most of the time I can control the obsessions and I’d say most people living with OCD have learned to do the same. Some people may need medicine. Some may need therapy. For me, I find that talking about it to people who understand helps the most. 

And of course, talking to God about it above all else. 

Everyone is different and handles their challenges differently. There isn’t one right way to deal with OCD or any other issue we may be having. We’re so quick to want people to pop a pill and get over it, but it’s just not that simple. 

You have to do what’s right for you, regardless of what others may say. Maybe therapy works great for them, but maybe for you it’s useless. Maybe others deal with it on their own, but you find that doctors and medicine help you best. No matter how you cope, never be ashamed. Medicine isn’t shameful, just as therapy isn’t. Dealing with it on your own isn’t something to hide either. 

Surprisingly, more people struggle than you may think. 

And for me? That’s the most comforting thing. 

Because I’m not alone.